I wrote my big brother John for advice. When it comes to parenting he and his wife Raquel are my heroes and their daughters are wonderful, happy, self realized people.
Here is the advice he sent:
"If daughter doesn't get loved from dad, she will get loved from another man who might not have her best interest at heart.
Quality time always comes in the midst of quantity time.
Always watch the Simpsons
Include them in your good works, that how they learn that they are not the most important people on the planet, but then treat them like they are anyways
Tell them about Jesus so they can go to heaven when they die"
The Jesus part is totally sincere but said with a sense of humor at the same time. He does not actually fear that I'm going to hell, but he does actually believe that Jesus is magic. We Jensens are smart asses and have been for generations.
Thanks John. This is really great advice, sincerely.